By Laura LeMond
Sending flowers for a funeral or memorial service and is one of the oldest traditions dating back thousands of years. One of the most appropriate ways to express your thoughts for the family of the deceased is to send an appropriate funeral arrangement.
Common questions:
When should I send flowers? Flowers are traditionally sent to the location of the funeral (usually a funeral home, mortuary or church). The timing here is that you need to send them in time for them to be positioned before visiting hours, so that they make it to the funeral site.
Should I send flowers to the home? You are always welcome to send flowers to the family home up to a month after the funeral, so that the family can view them in private. This a very comforting gesture for friends and family of the deceased, when they have more time to see the flowers.
What are the most appropriate types of flowers to send to where arrangements have been made for the funeral?
If you are sending flowers where they will be present with the viewing, it is a good idea to send a more traditional sympathy type of arrangement. The flowers will be designed in an easel spray, basket or some type of fan shaped design. You may also send a flowering plant. There are lots of options available.
What are the most popular flowers for funerals and memorials?
The most popular flowers are traditionally gladiolas, chrysanthemums, lilies, roses and carnations, any personal flowers that you like can be added as well.
Does color matter? Any flower color is appropriate, but many times the softer colors are popular for funerals, including soft pinks, yellows, lavender and white.
Be sure to attach a card, so the family knows who sent them.
Here is a list of flower arrangement definitions:
Spray - Flowers which are put onto an easel stand, they can have different shapes, like a triangle for example. The flowers are visible from the front of the spray only and are usually position close to the loved one.
Wreath - Wreaths represent the circle of life and can be displayed in a number of ways.
Casket Spray - This is the large spray of flowers on top of the casket, and the family usually arranges for this bouquet.
Floral Arrangement - an arrangement of fresh flowers, they can be sent in a vase or some type of other container.
Floral Inside Piece - a small arrangement designed to be placed inside the casket, such as nosegay or little spray of flowers.
If donations to a charity is requested, should I make a donation instead of flowers, if requested by the family?
It is nice to do both things, make a donation and send flowers, but personal preference if of consideration here. During this time, emotions run high, and it is a very tumultuous and grievous time for the family. Flowers are a great way to express your deepest sympathy and love. This visible sign of support will always be appreciated by the family. It is a traditional and appropriate way to say you care.
Mailflowers.com offers florist arranged flowers, gift baskets and same day delivery too.
We are simply the best online flowers source for any occasion, including Birthday Flowers, Anniversary Flowers, Get Well Flowers, Sympathy Flowers, Funeral Flowers, New Baby Flowers, Graduation Flowers, Mother's Day Flowers, Valentine's Day Flowers, Congratulations Flowers, Thank You Flowers, Fall Flower Arrangements and Summer Flowers.
Sending flowers for a funeral or memorial service and is one of the oldest traditions dating back thousands of years. One of the most appropriate ways to express your thoughts for the family of the deceased is to send an appropriate funeral arrangement.
Common questions:
When should I send flowers? Flowers are traditionally sent to the location of the funeral (usually a funeral home, mortuary or church). The timing here is that you need to send them in time for them to be positioned before visiting hours, so that they make it to the funeral site.
Should I send flowers to the home? You are always welcome to send flowers to the family home up to a month after the funeral, so that the family can view them in private. This a very comforting gesture for friends and family of the deceased, when they have more time to see the flowers.
What are the most appropriate types of flowers to send to where arrangements have been made for the funeral?
If you are sending flowers where they will be present with the viewing, it is a good idea to send a more traditional sympathy type of arrangement. The flowers will be designed in an easel spray, basket or some type of fan shaped design. You may also send a flowering plant. There are lots of options available.
What are the most popular flowers for funerals and memorials?
The most popular flowers are traditionally gladiolas, chrysanthemums, lilies, roses and carnations, any personal flowers that you like can be added as well.
Does color matter? Any flower color is appropriate, but many times the softer colors are popular for funerals, including soft pinks, yellows, lavender and white.
Be sure to attach a card, so the family knows who sent them.
Here is a list of flower arrangement definitions:
Spray - Flowers which are put onto an easel stand, they can have different shapes, like a triangle for example. The flowers are visible from the front of the spray only and are usually position close to the loved one.
Wreath - Wreaths represent the circle of life and can be displayed in a number of ways.
Casket Spray - This is the large spray of flowers on top of the casket, and the family usually arranges for this bouquet.
Floral Arrangement - an arrangement of fresh flowers, they can be sent in a vase or some type of other container.
Floral Inside Piece - a small arrangement designed to be placed inside the casket, such as nosegay or little spray of flowers.
If donations to a charity is requested, should I make a donation instead of flowers, if requested by the family?
It is nice to do both things, make a donation and send flowers, but personal preference if of consideration here. During this time, emotions run high, and it is a very tumultuous and grievous time for the family. Flowers are a great way to express your deepest sympathy and love. This visible sign of support will always be appreciated by the family. It is a traditional and appropriate way to say you care.
Mailflowers.com offers florist arranged flowers, gift baskets and same day delivery too.
We are simply the best online flowers source for any occasion, including Birthday Flowers, Anniversary Flowers, Get Well Flowers, Sympathy Flowers, Funeral Flowers, New Baby Flowers, Graduation Flowers, Mother's Day Flowers, Valentine's Day Flowers, Congratulations Flowers, Thank You Flowers, Fall Flower Arrangements and Summer Flowers.
October 4, 2012 at 12:30 PM
It would be good to order the flowers early so that the flower shop can deliver it at the wake before the service begins. It would be bad judgment on your part if you send them a floral casket spray, funeral wreath, or crosses if you are not a family member. A good option for family friends is to send sympathy baskets.
Jory Prison